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Ascendant Square Sun

When you express yourself, you unknowingly cause others to react negatively. You tend to get off on the wrong foot because you have trouble convincing people that you are sincere and honest. You come on a bit strong, which just does not set quite right with people, and they resent you for it. All the endearments never quite offset your suspected lack of sincerity. You should ask your closest friend about this, because the chances are that you will resent and reject what is said here.

You will compromise only when there is no other alternative. You have an incredible inability to face the facts about yourself, although they are painfully obvious to everyone else. You want to win everyone''s approval, and you can do so by asserting yourself more modestly so that people do not feel that you are forcing yourself on them. The same holds true with associates with whom you are in close contact for extended periods of time. People will appreciate you more if you let them make willing gestures to you. In that way they can feel that they are the aggressors. It is better to attract them to you than to demand their submission.

In spite of the foregoing, you are accustomed to resistance when you try to do something. Knowing that nothing worthwhile comes easy, you are ready to endure frustration at times because the experience is valuable in building character. You had to overcome difficulties with superiors in your formative years, and as a result you may have grown up with a chip on your shoulder. You also know that you will have to rely on your own resources if you want to succeed. The difficulty comes in dealing with people in authority who expect you to recognize your inferior position. If you realize that it is not your creative abilities, but your attitude that offends people, you will then succeed in winning complete approval for your competence.

In love you may tend to overstate your case. Although you mean to be sincere, your partner may find your words too good to believe. On the other hand, you may express yourself incompletely or convey the wrong meaning. Because of this tendency, it is a good idea to express yourself as clearly and concisely as possible so that there can be no misinterpretation. Of course your partner can provide valuable feedback about your actions, and you should listen with special care to get a more objective view of yourself.

Probably you have a good deal of energy, which you may use either in your career or in building your home life. In either case you should be careful not to over do it, for that would deplete your energies or endanger your health. Let your partner share your efforts and shoulder some of the burden instead of taking it on alone. Doing that will save some of your energies for loving and other pleasant pastimes, and it will also draw you closer to your partner. If your accomplishments are shared, you both can take pride in them. As a result, a relationship that begins unevenly will become increasingly unified as time goes on.