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Ascendant Square Mars

Ascendant Square Mars

This aspect shows that you show no moderation in asserting yourself. When you feel the urge to take action about something important, you usually do so without polish or refinement. When you act this way, people resent it and find you offensive. When reminded of this shortcoming or others, you are often offended because you feel you should not have to answer to anyone for your actions. It is nearly impossible to stop you from expressing your opinion, and you do not care where you are or who hears you. Anyone who provokes you invites your immediate reaction, usually a negative one. You even seem to enjoy people becoming upset by your display of bad manners. You delight in putting people on the defensive and watching them squirm as you antagonize them with your tirades. Because you are not really convinced of your superiority, you have a chip on your shoulder. Only winning in a show of strength can satisfy your ego.

Your parents probably tried to stimulate you to do the things they were unable to accomplish in their lives, and you became annoyed by this pressure. Disagreements and bickering in your early home life have caused you to become bitter and resentful of authority. Although you want your talents to be recognized, your inability to submit to authority creates problems and restricts the progress of your career. Problems may also result because your parents could not provide you with an education. If you have received one, it has quite likely been through your own efforts.

You admire people who can translate their capabilities into financial gain. If you are willing to endure the self-denial and sacrifice required, you can accomplish the same thing. You know your future security depends on successfully developing your potentials. You are willing to work hard to realize your goals, but there are times when you wonder if they are worth all the effort and the frustrations you must endure.

In love, your looks belie your energy so that you and a potential partner are often at cross purposes because your true style has been misinterpreted. As a result you may not always be able to release as much energy in sexual expression as you would like. This problem requires some patience, and you must avoid acting too hastily in breaking up a relationship that makes you momentarily angry or frustrated. It may have great potential. In general, the longer you know a partner, the more satisfying your sexual expression will become, as you work out how to get the fullest enjoyment together. You should be especially careful to keep the pressure of your home or career from getting in the way of love making. If possible, set aside some time for love no matter what else is happening so that the important sexual communication between you and your partner is not interfered with. It is easy to neglect this when you are busy with other matters, but in the long run it would be very detrimental to do so. Even temporary neglect can cause you to become out of sync with each other, and it will take some time to get back in the right rhythm. It is far better to plan for regular expression that can build and grow in quality and style. In love, as in other areas of life, practice makes perfect.