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Ascendant Opposite Moon

Ascendant Opposite Moon

You try to become personally involved in the affairs of the people you know. You are not content with casual encounters or impersonal communication and seek to be absorbed by others so they will turn to you for sympathetic understanding.

Subconsciously you need someone to need you at all times. You are trying to transfer the parental loyalty of your childhood to people with whom you can become intimately identified. This seems to be the only way you can conserve the emotional security you are accustomed to.

You have a wide circle of friends who think highly of you because of your generous and kindly disposition. Nevertheless you find it difficult to form individual binding relationships because you are never really sure you can fulfill the responsibilities they entail.

To avoid this problem you circulate freely among a number of people you feel comfortable with, who appreciate the favors you do for them. You want to be loved, and you constantly dwell on this fact. Although you adapt fairly well to changes in a relationship, you secretly worry that you have failed to make a sufficient contribution to sustain it.

Because you function well in a social environment, public relations would be a comfortable field for you. You hate being alone, so any professional interest should involve personal contact with the public.

You may have some difficulty in achieving your material goals, however. Your sometimes fickle behavior gives superiors the impression that you are unstable and therefore unreliable. It is important that you learn to stand alone and secure in your independence. You persist in the hope that everything you desire will someday be realized.

Having a lover or close friend at all times is critical to your emotional expression, and without one you may feel emotionally sterile. When you are alone you may find it difficult to really put your heart into doing anything, whereas with a partner your energies really begin to flow. You become excited and committed, not only to the relationship but to outside activities as well.

As a result you will become quite an expert on your lover''s emotional ins and outs simply because you exert so much energy in that direction. Your lover will be a mirror of your emotions, which will help you to become more well-rounded and self-aware. Your partner will also help you communicate your emotions to others, aiding you in getting across messages that you find difficult or impossible to express.

As your lover comes to know you better, he or she will know when you are saying one thing and meaning another. That trait may present problems with people who do not know you so well. But the longer you pursue a relationship, the more self-aware you will become. Your partner will teach you about aspects of yourself that you did not understand and bring you to a high level of emotional self- understanding.