Ascendant Conjunct Neptune

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Ascendant Conjunct Neptune

Ascendant Conjunct Neptune

You are very sensitive and perhaps psychic. Your grip on the real world is loose and you need to grasp it more firmly. You are often away in a world of your own where you can escape the harshness of reality which is especially painful to you. You are so physically sensitive to the injustices you observe in society that they can easily make you ill.

Because your environment has such a powerful effect, you should try to make some contribution to relieve your anxieties about allowing these negative conditions to exist. You are particularly sensitive to the depressing social, economic, and inhuman conditions that plague much of the worlds population. You are sympathetic toward the oppressed, understanding of the emotionally disturbed, and forgiving to those who seem guiltless in their affronts to society.

When people fail in their dealings with you, you tend to give them the benefit of the doubt and silently bear your disappointment. You easily become distraught over conditions you are powerless to do anything about, and your feelings of guilt and failure can make you withdraw into a world that is safe from responsibility. If the abrasive effect of direct encounter is severe enough, you might resort to artificial means of inducing relief from painful reality.

But it is especially important to avoid drugs and alcohol, since they only increase your vulnerability. You attract strange characters and are very impressionable to powerful individuals who can gain control over you. You should associate with persons who have their feet on the ground to compensate for your aimless wandering temperament. You need to be stabilized in reality where you can do a great deal of good. There is a very real and large need for your sympathetic understanding, and you do not have the right to turn down anyone who extends a hand for help.

In love other people find your personality difficult to put a finger on, which you can use to your advantage or not, depending on how aware you are of it yourself. You can use this charm to fool, charm, or otherwise cajole a potential lover into doing almost anything you desire, because others easily see their own fantasy images in you, which serves to make you a most desirable partner.

But this trait could also backfire on you, because the longer you allow your partner to set your personality, the harder it will be to communicate who you really are. If your lover''s image of you becomes too ingrained, the disillusionment of discovering the real you may be too much for the relationship to bear, or at least it will be very disappointing.

Thus it might be better to use your powers of deception on a social level, but once involved with a partner, to doff the cloak of unreality so that you can achieve meaningful and real communication.

Once you establish that in your love relationship, you can be an excellent partner in sexual fantasy, for you can slip easily into and out of your lover''s fantasy roles as well as your own. For you that is a very rich and rewarding area of sexuality to explore. However, before getting into such areas of expression, you and your lover should be sure that you understand each other''s real nature, so that it does not become lost or confused in the fantasies.